How to Coordinate Your Wedding Party
This groomsmen attire guide will help you choose suits or tuxedos, coordinate colors and plan fittings for your wedding party. Start with the wedding dress code and the groom’s outfit. Then choose the details that bring the group together.
Should Groomsmen Wear Suits or Tuxedos?
Choose tuxedos for a black-tie wedding or a traditional formal look. Suits offer flexibility for daytime ceremonies and less formal celebrations. However, the venue alone does not set the dress code. Make sure the outfits fit the plans you and your partner have agreed on.
For example, a ballroom wedding can have different dress expectations from another event at the same venue. Share the dress code with every member of your wedding party. Our Suit vs Tuxedo Guide explains the differences in details, accessories and formality.
Should the Groom Match the Groomsmen?
The groom can match the group or stand out through a few details. A different tie, vest or boutonniere can create a distinct look without changing the whole outfit. First, decide which pieces everyone will share. Then choose the groom’s finishing touches.
If you want the groom in a tuxedo and the groomsmen in suits, discuss the plan with our team. We can help you compare the level of formality, colors and accessories. Keep the result consistent with your wedding dress code.
Choosing Colors and Accessories
Use your wedding palette as a starting point. Navy with blush, charcoal with burgundy, light gray with dusty blue, or tan with sage are combinations to consider. Bring a fabric swatch or color sample so you can compare shades in person.
Next, coordinate ties, pocket squares, vests and shoes. The group can wear matching outfits or share a color with small variations. For a simple plan, choose one jacket and trouser style, then use accessories to distinguish the groom.
Finally, give each groomsman a clear list of the items to buy or rent. Include shirts, neckwear, shoes and any required jewelry. This helps avoid last-minute gaps in the outfit.
Groomsmen Attire Guide to Planning and Fittings
Use these stages as a starting point, then confirm timing with our team. Availability, special orders, alterations and travel plans can affect the schedule.
Six to Nine Months Before the Wedding
Begin comparing styles and colors. Decide whether the group will buy or rent, and discuss a budget everyone can plan around. Confirm who will need an outfit.
Three to Four Months Before the Wedding
Arrange measurements and confirm each person’s selected pieces. Tell our team about anyone traveling from out of town. Ask what information they should provide and how to handle changes in size.
Four to Six Weeks Before the Wedding
Review sizes, accessories and outstanding details with the group. Confirm the fitting, alteration and pickup arrangements that apply to your order. Follow the dates on your rental agreement for pickup and return.
Renting or Buying Groomsmen Attire
Buying gives each person an outfit to keep for future weddings, dinners or business events. Renting may work better for someone who needs formalwear for this celebration. Compare the full outfit and services before making a decision.
Browse our Buy New collection and rental collection with your group. Our team can help you compare options for your event and budget.
Planning for Out-of-Town Groomsmen
Ask our team about the Coast-to-Coast Wedding Program and how to share measurements. A virtual appointment can help you discuss styles and coordinate the group before visiting.
New purchases are available for shipping within our delivery area. However, all rentals require in-store pickup in San Jose. We do not ship rentals. Plan travel and pickup around your order’s dates, and confirm any fitting needs with our team.
Common Planning Mistakes to Avoid
- Leaving details until the last minute: Confirm each person’s outfit and accessories early enough to address missing items.
- Overlooking fit: Share fit concerns with our team and ask about in-store alterations.
- Giving unclear instructions: Send the group one agreed list of styles, colors and next steps.
- Assuming rental shipping is available: Arrange San Jose pickup and follow the agreed return date.
Get Help Coordinating Your Wedding Party
Use this groomsmen attire guide to prepare for your consultation. Bring your event date, group size, color inspiration and questions about sizing. Tuxedo Fashions has served the Bay Area since 1977, with 50 years of formalwear experience.
Explore our wedding attire page, then schedule an in-store appointment for personal help coordinating your group.